August 26, 2023. Letter to Our Community

August 26, 2023

Dear WiseBodies Community,

We have a big fall semester about to begin; we’d love to have you with us.

Classes and workshops soon will be up on our website, wisebodies.org. This is a preview so you can hold space in your calendars, and in your hearts.

On first and third Monday evenings, October through April, I hope you’ll consider joining us for Sex Ed for Adults. We had our first experience of this class last year; it was pretty profound. In response to our time together, students have decided to continue for a second year.

For second-year Sex Ed for Adults’ students, we’ll meet in a closed class on first and third Thursday evenings, also October through April.

For adults considering becoming Sexuality Educators, please join WiseBodies for our first year teaching WiseBodies’ Seven Month Sexuality Educator Teacher Training (WBSETT)! We’ll meet the second Saturday and Sunday of each month, October through April, 11am - 4pm. Students will be invited to join Sunday afternoon Maker Workshops, when we’ll be guided through building, sewing, and creating a bunch of the tools we’ll be using as WiseBodies Sexuality Educators.

On the second Tuesday evening of month, October through April, 6 - 8 pm, we’ll gather at WiseBodies for Going Beyond Gynecology, an in-person, on-going activist conversation, learning, and training in how we can help transform the local gynecologic experience into one that is client-centered, warm, supportive, and collaborative.

Over the course of the year we’ll have a bunch of Sunday Afternoon Maker Workshops where we’ll get to learn how to build our own beautiful steam/smoke stools; sew anatomically correct, gorgeous teaching “puppets;” create aphrodisiac lubricants, drinks, and chocolate delights; and work with a bunch of cool teaching tools.

It’s quite likely we’ll offer an on-going course for adults who’ve experienced sexual harm - not to focus on the harm or harmful memories, but rather to focus on discovering delight. Discovering Delight (after experiencing harm)…something like that. Watch for this.

For our youngest students, we’ll soon have descriptions and dates up for our beloved children’s classes, including Fairy Houses for 5 - 7 year olds and Botany and the Body for 8 - 10 year olds. These will be in person, in Kingston.

In addition to reading about and registering for this bounty of classes, you’ll soon also be able to read about the wonderful WiseBodies educators who’ll be with us this-coming year. A wealth of goodness.

Thank you for your loving support. We need you with us, and are glad you’re here, Isa

We are resting this Fall and returning Early Spring

Upon deep reflection, Isa, sára, Kole, the WiseBodies Board have recognized that WiseBodies—at this moment of beginning our 10 year mark—needs to take this fall semester as a time to let our fields be fallow.

What this means is that, except for our Circle Class, we are going to pause all fall semester classes and workshops.

We are going to pause so the administration and the Board can take the time we need to rest, regroup, rethink, and reimagine who and how we are as an organization.

All our wonderful classes and workshops will shift their start dates to February, 2022.

Our school and staff will spend these fall and early winter weeks resting, and growing our deep, internal, autumnal roots, roots that will become good fodder for beginning again in the very early spring.

We imagine, and hope, that those in our community who are in need of deep rest and more "time," may welcome this time as an opportunity.

Please know that during these quiet weeks when the administration and Board will be in steady behind-the-scenes work mode, we also will continue to be here for you. Isa will be available to answer your questions via email and phone, and will continue to offer private guidance and counseling. You can reach her at wisebodies@wisebodies.org. Isa and Sima will be guiding our amazing Circle kids and families every Wednesday afternoon. WiseBodies will be like a beehive in winter, looking very quiet from the outside, and on the inside steadily keeping the center of WiseBodies warm, nourished, and growing.

With love,
WiseBodies

WiseBodies Leader Shante Melville on WGXC

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A week ago I was lucky enough to go on the air with Keiran Riley at WGXC, our local radio station. Being able to represent WiseBodies was such a pleasurable and fun experience, partly because I'm 16 and being on the radio is kind of a big deal to me, and also because I love Keiran, who's one of the hosts of the Afternoon Show on WGXC.

You can listen to a recording of the interview here!

I reached out to Keiran in the hopes of promoting the Tender and Tough class here at WiseBodies, talk about what it's like being an LGBTQIA2+ teenager during these times, the history of the LGBTQIA2+ community, and the ongoing fight to be recognized and treated the same as everyone else.

We, the younger generation, are fighting for our futures as individuals as well as a collective. From getting and keeping access to safe abortions, to ending violence against trans BIPOC, to stopping climate change, there are so many challenges that we face. And that is why community is even more vital during these tumultuous times. Creating support, comradery and a space to grow as individuals is our goal. And by jove, we’re doing it!

Seeing the connection that has formed over only 3 classes is exhilarating. We’ve talked about the struggles of being deadnamed, created mutual class agreements as well as bonded over our love of cloaks.

Who can say what the following weeks will bring — but I have no doubt we will succeed in everything we have dreamed.

Let me end with a quote I said on the air. “A lot of teenagers, myself included, want to fit in. And a very important part of self identity and discovering yourself is realizing: “I don't need to fit in, I'm too awesome for that! I get to stand out, I get to be extraordinary, and I get to be wholly myself."”

Shante Melville, Co-Leader
WiseBodies Queer Teens Group

Sewing and Writing in September

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H, 9 years old

The water-profh bag is to put blody pads in. The bag's have shapes on them to open the bag just pole them.

How to put the pad in the bag. Just open the bag smush the pad in.

then close the bag.

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SBT, 11 years old

How to use the pad:

Step 1: place it on your underwear.

Step 2: clip it around them.

Step 3: Wear it as long as needed.

Step 4: put in in waterproof bag.


How to clean the pad:

Step 1: take the pad out of the waterproof bag and put in washer with soap.

Step 2: when done put in dryer.

Step 3: place in pad bag when washed and dried.


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L. M., 9 years old

How you put it on is you unravel it all the way. then you wrap it around you’re underwear untill theres about an inch or to of fabric left. then you fold the fabric thats left into the pocket.

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Letter to the Community, in Response to The Earl Show

Time’s Up on Earl: An Open Letter

On September 5, 2020, Time Space Limited (“TSL”) opened “The Earl Show,” a retrospective dedicated to the late Earl Swanigan. “Earl” was the Hudson-based artist well known for the surreal, absurd, often kitschy paintings displayed in windows up and down Warren Street. Earl died in January 2019.

Ultimately, the people of Hudson will not remember Earl for his art, but as a sexual predator, a serial groper and domestic violence perpetrator. His abuse of people in Hudson is well known and documented. Indeed, the Hudson Police Department has turned over reports made by people in Hudson detailing Earl’s abusive behavior. It was a long-time open secret.

It is therefore difficult to understand why, in this #MeToo moment, TSL would choose to amplify a known misogynist and perpetrator of sexual harm. We do not accept the notion that our community can celebrate Earl’s art while ignoring his crimes and abusive behavior. Doing so only serves to silence and marginalize Earl’s victims. We call on our community to boycott The Earl Show. We can choose believing and supporting survivors over venerating the man who harassed and assaulted them. We can choose to stand in solidarity with survivors who risked everything by coming forward so that their efforts to protect themselves and seek justice were not in vain. We can send a loud, clear message to TSL: time’s up on overlooking Earl’s abusive behavior because we like his art. We can send a loud, clear message to every person in our community: time’s up on tolerating sexual assault.

From the Board of WiseBodies

Sewing and Writing in August

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A.N.-A. - 11 When we started working on this pad project,I was a little nervous. Pads can sometimes make me a little nervous, perhaps it’s because I have not learned a lot about them. But I got used to it. When we sew together, I am learning more about sewing, how to get the needle threaded, how to do seams all sorts of things! This is a project we can achieve and do, because we have many people who are part of it. We are trying lots of different pads to practice sewing and to learn what pads work best. I had never sewn menstrual pads before this, but I think they're easy to make. You can make them in all different ways but they all have a certain pattern, easy ones are good to make for beginning sewers, and then there are harder, more difficult ones, but they all work the same. For most people, talking about Pads is hard, and for me,it's sometimes hard.In this Pad Project, we are learning, sewing, talking, Lots of things! It’s nice, sitting on the porch sewing pads.

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A.S. - 11 The Pad Project When I started making pads and learning about them I was at first scared and uncomfortable. However over time I was very fortunate to learn that pads were only made uncomfortable in the past and that they are completely ordinary articles of clothing and are helpful with part of women's bodies. I had never learned how to make a pad or use a sewing machine. To be honest I am glad that I didn’t because there is no better way to learn how to sew then in a circle of safety with my friends old and new with lots of laughing and happiness.

Pads can be good for humans but they can also be terrible for the earth. Paper pads don’t need to be washed, they are not reusable. They are uncomfortable and take 500 years for them to decompose. When we make pads they are cloth meaning they are reusable and they take way shorter to decompose. Their only issue is that you have to wash them. So it is just a bit of more work and you can make a big difference.

That is all I have to say about making and using pads. So if you wish to help the plants and animals that feed you and make your life so much better, then buy our pads so you can save more money and save plants and animals. All we want to do is help your life be that much better.

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H.S.

You should by are pads buckes thay are inviermently good. And thay do not female liki a stra jakit for your but. And thay are mad by hand vary carfly. And we hav 2 vary good and helpful teachers. I.C  S. to mack shor everything goos smoothly, and thats y you shud get are pads.

By Hannah B age 9

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S.B.T. 11 years old. 

When we started to make pads I had no idea how to sew. Also, I didn’t know almost anything about pads, so I was kind of weirded-out. But I really enjoyed learning about them and then sewing them with friends. Now I feel comfortable talking about them and learning about them.

We have also been making bags which is really fun.

I personally think I have really improved my sewing and I believe this has really been a good experience for me where I have learned to open up more and feel comfortable about it.

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A.T. - 11

The test pad I made was a struggle. The thread I was using was too thick for the machine, so it got stuck a lot. It was the first thing I had sewn with a sewing machine in my life. I think my pad turned out great. Despite all the extra pieces of thread I had to cut off for it to look neat.

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L.M.

Hello.

I am L. M. and am nine years old. I started WiseBodies one year ago and I love and enjoy it!!

Everyone in my class has become my great friends and are close to me. 

The pads we are making are easy and fun and great for the environment.

I think that you should consider getting one of these pads.

It takes over 500 years for a plastic pad to biodegrade, unlike our pads which are reusable.

The Pad Project

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On the WiseBodies front porch last Wednesday afternoon, 6 girls, 9 - 12 years old, were designing, cutting, and learning how to sew cloth menstrual pads. During break times, they wrote about The Pad Project they'd started 3 months ago. On the phone with us via WhatsApp was our co-teacher Sima Kamaamia, coming to us from her home in Nairobi. On the screen of our computer was new WiseBodies Co-Director sara abdullah, who lives in Brooklyn, and who was introducing herself to each girl.

By the end of class, 4 parents, one 2 year old on the WiseBodies swing, and one 9 year old holding on to her father’s hand, were laughing and talking in the WiseBodies garden and driveway. Everyone was wearing a mask, and family cluster was maintaining a safe 6 feet distance.

As the students finished class and began heading out to meet up with their parents, and Sima was giving sewing advice to a parent via our virtual connection, I called out in cheerful manner, letting parents and the neighborhood know that the girls were bringing home their just-sewn pads, and would welcome all parents, including parents with testicles, to try them on.

These easy and welcoming learning days at WiseBodies are normal here. It is for this that kids and families return for, year after year.

The impact of the work we do at WiseBodies is subtle, and is vast. Take a moment to imagine into just this one moment of our afternoon together: Imagine being an adult cis male parent, and being invited by your daughter's WiseBodies teacher - invited with a voice the entire neighborhood could hear - to try on a cloth menstrual pad, and to come back the following week with feedback on how comfortable it is.

Imagine also being a kid, and having the chance to live within the reality that cycling is a perfectly normal topic, one that easily can be called out by your teacher from the front porch of a regular neighborhood home.

Imagine also being 9, and seeing your 12 year old big sister happily jumping down the porch steps, after her second class time here at WiseBodies, hearing that big sister say aloud how much she’s looking forward to coming back next week.

Imagine also being the parent of a 9 year old student who’s been at WiseBodies for a full year, and witnessing your young daughter become a class leader.

WiseBodies is a small school. We work locally. Our impact expands from our home in a small village, through the neighboring villages and towns, through our local small city, and all the way to Nairobi, Kenya.

The world - our world, small and large - needs us.

Come join us as we move forward. We’d love to have your 9 - 12 year old trans, cis, non-gender conforming daughter with us this year. Classes begin first week in October.

We’d love to have your financial support.

We’d love to have you tell your family and friends about WiseBodies.

WiseBodies Makes and Loves Cloth Menstrual Pads. The New York Times Falls Short on Facts.

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Soft, reusable, absorbent, and often handmade, cloth menstrual pads are a pretty yummy option for people who cycle, and who have access to the soap, water, and sunlight necessary for their care.

Made from cotton flannel, these popular pads, including the ones WiseBodies makes, snap onto underwear, stay in place, are gentle next to our sensitive vulvas, and do a great job absorbing flow and being easy on our over-extended landfills.

Cloth pads do require care, and resources. They need access to water, and soap for washing, and dryers or sunshine for drying. The fact is that the best way to dry cloth pads is in sunshine, where the light and heat from the sun can sterilize the cloth, leaving them ultra clean and sweet-smelling.

A huge bonus from wearing cloth pads is that they have the wonderful effect of putting us in touch with our menstrual flow, something that's entirely cool and desirable. Who doesn't want to grow into knowing all the different ways menstrual blood can look, feel, and smell? This special fluid, the blood that nurtured each and every one of us until our parents' womb created a placenta, is utterly remarkable.

We live in a culture that rarely mentions how magical menstrual blood can be. Instead, our culture usually supports the idea that our menstrual flow is something to hide, to feel shame about, and to secretly dispose of via disposable pads and tampons.

Given all this, it's surprising to have New York Times writer and Ob/Gyn, Dr. Jen Gunter, come down in her piece entitled "Are Reusable Feminine Cloths Safe?" from January 17, 2019, without clear, strong support for cotton flannel pads.

Instead, the article leads with a title that raises the anxious possibilty that cloth - a common product used worldwide in communities with access to water, soap, and sunshine, may not, in fact, be safe. (Imagine if the title had been "Reusable Cloth Menstrual Pads are Fabulous!" as an example of a clearly pad-supportive title.)

The title also uses the phrase "feminine cloths" rather than "menstrual pads." For those of us not familiar with the look of a menstrual pad, we may not have known the article was about a period product. "Feminine cloths" reads like something a woman might use to wipe down her body, rather than a product that everyone who cycles (including some non-binary people and trans men) can use to collect menstrual blood.

The author continues to be wishy-washy on her support for cloth pads by beginning her article with the sentence, "There are several studies looking at providing women with reusable menstrual cloths designed specifically for menstruation in countries where women have limited access to products for menstrual hygiene."

Locating the use of cloth menstrual pads in "countries where women have limited access to products for menstrual hygiene" and, in our reading imaginations, marking those other women as poor due to their "limited access to products," Dr. Gunter suggests that cloth menstrual pads are for poor women living in countries apart from, and therefore separate from, people in the U.S.

This trope separates the doctor's readership from the rest of the world's cyclers, and for no reason. In the U.S., we have a large percentage of cycling people who do not have access to menstrual supplies, who can afford neither cloth nor paper pads, and who do not have easy access to soap, water, and sunshine. In addition, the US holds an anti-menstruation culture, one in which publicly hanging cloth menstrual pads in to dry in the sunshine most often would not be welcome. This conversation is greatly needed, yet is not included in this piece.

The author continues, "The material is the same or similar to that used for cloth diapers." While the author could have chosen a cloth comparison that links menstrual pads with an adult item, like a cozy flannel shirt, she instead has chosen to connect cloth pads with diapers, infantalizing pads. This suggestion, that cloth pads and diapers are similar, continues the US gynecologic system's pattern of infantalizing those of us who have vaginas, including their practice of suggesting to us that they know more about, and are in control of, our bodies rather than the reverse.

There's more. While stating that "...many patients of mine have reported using reusable cloth menstrual pads and have been very satisfied," Dr. Gunter begins that sentence with this: "These menstrual cloths are generally safe to use...," again raising doubt about the safety of cloth pads. Since we have yet to have had a single study done in the U.S. in regard to the safety of cloth pad use in communities with access to water, soap, and sunshine, the use of the word "generally" has no factual basis.

The only available pad studies have been done in communities outside the U.S., communities where pad users have not had access to water and soap. And while these studies have indeed shown an increase in vaginal infection related to cloth pad rather than disposable pad use, the studies are clear that the increased infection rates are due to the lack of soap and water for cleaning. Moreover, studies have demonstrated that the lack of cultural approval for hanging cloth pads outdoors, in the sun, where the cloth can be sterilized via sun exposure, has had an impact on the cleanliness of cloth pads.

What the doctor and the studies neglect to mention is that the same conditions for cloth care exist here in the U.S., where people with access to soap and water are more likely to be cloth pad users rather than those without. Increased rates of vaginal infection due to poor cloth pad care are not country-bound, but rather bound by access to necessary resources. When cyclers have access to clean water, soap, and sunshine, the conditions for healthy pad use are fully satisfied.

If we were to change the focus of these studies of "other cultures" away from cloth pad miscare and toward misogyny and induced poverty, we likely could imagine the end of both as a cure for safe cloth pad practice.

Dr. Gunter's last paragraph on cloth pads claims that "The biggest medical risk with any menstrual hygiene product that sits against your vulva is inadequate absorbency. If the cloth or pad is wet, it will irritate the skin."

While cloth pad wearers know their pads need to be changed regularly in order to not have menstrual blood soak through onto clothing, absolutely no data support her claim that wet cloth pads irritate the skin of the vulva. There is, however, increasing concern about the harm that chemical-rich paper pads may cause the paper pad wearer, a concern Dr. Gunter does not include in her article.

The author's final sentence, "If you are not wet and don’t feel irritated then the reusable pad or cloth you are using is likely just fine," leaves the reader where we started, with a non-affirmative okay to cloth pad use.

Menstruators experience wetness. That's a fact of bleeding. And menstruators know that the word "likely" is not as clear as "Yes." A strong final sentence might have read: "If you cycle, it's cool that you're using cloth pads! Change them often, wash them with soap and water, and get them out in the sunshine so the world can see that we bleed, and are proud of it."

At WiseBodies, cloth pads are a definite Yes. At WiseBodies, we support making sure those in our communities have access to free menstrual supplies, including cloth pads. At WiseBodies, we support our communities having access to soap and water. At WiseBodies, we support our culture transitioning to absolute support for hanging cloth pads outdoors in full sunshine, alongside our flannel shirts and our children's diapers.

Know It, Write It, Teach It, at Kite's Nest

The continuation of a class WiseBodies began last spring at Kite's Nest in Hudson, our group of wonderful young students have begun a semester in which they'll work toward creating and sharing a library of their own books on human sexuality. Led by bookmaker and WiseBodies Board member Maija Reed, the students were assisted in designing and creating their first books, soon to be filled with what they're learning and thinking.

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WiseBodies Powers Forward, Post-Election, Post-Aggression.

WiseBodies has lots of exciting news. In response to our country's election's display of overt racism and misogyny, WiseBodies is moving forward, loud and proud. WiseBodies is opening our doors to more children, students, parents, and adults. We are broadening our teaching range in all possible avenues. With the help of our beloved neighbors, friends, and families, WiseBodies is continuing to openly display our powerful support for all communities.

Here are some cool details:

WiseBodies has begun teaching in Hudson. Joining hands with Kite's Nest and the Staley B Keith Social Justice Center, WiseBodies now is teaching an afternoon class that meets every-other Thursday in the warm and welcoming rooms of Kite's Nest's Space 101. This class is free to Hudson's high school students.
Our first night was filled with brilliant energy. We're looking forward to creating a long-term, focussed learning environment in Hudson. Hudson! Thank you for the very warm welcome.

WiseBodies also has begun teaching classes for parents. Our first class was so fun, and obviously so needed (!), we're about to launch a permanent, on-going class for parents of WiseBodies students. Watch for this! Parents, know this: WiseBodies makes it really fun to learn the stuff we've never previously had the chance to learn. We're going to look for 100% attendance.

WiseBodies is looking even further south, toward opening class in Brooklyn. Let's imagine into a Brooklyn branch of WiseBodies, taught by WiseBodies graduates.

As many of us know, the precious and sacred WiseBodies learning space has been several times violated by negative aggression. In respose to this assertion of violence, the wonderful WiseBodies community has acted with immediate, full-on presence.

WiseBodies community members have come forward with their motorcycles, cars, and trucks to monitor activity at our program; we've had parents stop in to check on our teachers, offering hugs and laughs; we have one very special farming family holding a bedroom ready for WiseBodies teachers and family members; we've had calls from the State Police, the local police department, and the Sherrif's office checking in on us; we've had a parent buy high-end security cameras now installed on WiseBodies property; we've even had a very large box of fresh veggies dropped off on our front porch.

And this: two WiseBodies families have bought almost two dozen Gay Pride flags, and are intiating a community-support action, an action in which homes in the large WiseBodies community will be able to hang Gay Pride flags from their own windows and doors, in support of WiseBodies programs! This is the kind of community-supportive brilliance WiseBodies loves! Let us know if you would like to join this community initiative and hang a Gay Pride flag; we have flags ready for you!

For all these gestures of support, large and small, we at WiseBodies are enormously grateful. The work of bringing healthy and whole sexuality education to all truly is community work. WiseBodies sure has the right community to bring this necessary work to fruition.

Together, and only together, we've got this.

With love.

Class.

In WiseBodies class tonight, we'll focus all our brilliant energy on anti-Donald work:

WiseBodies students will study the clitoris, all parts honored and present.

Tomorrow WiseBodies will make sure everyone we know votes to get a clitoris-embodied being into the White House.

New Class: Hudson KNOW

Here is WiseBodies critically important, brand-new offering in Hudson. All youth deserve Real Sex Ed. This education changes lives in radical ways.

Thanks to the support of Kite's Nest and SBK, WiseBodies will bring this class to Hudson.

You can help by passing out pocket cards - on a regular, on-going basis - to the Hudson's high-school-aged youth.

You also can help by offering help pay for meals WiseBodies will offer these Thursday evenings, by helping us find clean, soft rugs and pillows on which to sit, by helping pay Kite's Nest's heating bill this winter so we can be warm!...

but mostly by helping youth know about class. And helping make sure youth get there, for every class.

KNOW into Fall

KNOW, our large, amazing class of high school students and their parents, is growing into the kind of community every teacher loves to teach: brilliant, warm, energetic, kind-hearted, and funny.

We find we're now able to begin to reflect back on what elements have helped to create this new community. We're certain presence, determination, committment, and honesty are some of the emotional components that have helped us land in this fine space.

Becuase we want to improve our skills with building good relationships outside the classroom, we'll continue to pay attention to how we're doing this here, at WiseBodies.

Since our first class in September, students have used lots of games and strategies to learn names, get to know personal histories, find inner connection, and discover shared interests.

Students have helped prepare and serve lots of bowls of soup, biscuits and breads, fruits, and desserts. They've participated in scrubbing dishes, sweeping floors, and putting away utensils. We've found plenty of joy in repeating our shared, now known, routines.

In our classroom, we've focussed on building trust.

This is worth repeating.

In our classroom, we've focussed on building trust.

In addition, the students have developed a perfect list of topics they would like to cover this year.

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We've begun to discuss our first subjects, discovering deep interrelationships. The students are participating fully in our conversation-based learning, sharing insights that are remarkable and profound.

CircleBee Students Delight.

The past seven weeks have found CircleBee class in the kitchen, in the woods, at the local Rite Aide, and in our much-loved Pillow Room.

We have focussed entirely on the male reproductive and sexual system, and have had a bunch of fun with our studies.

Not only have we had fun, so have the parents, the Rite Aide workers, and the strangers we've met in the forest. CircleBee kids are making a name for themselves all around town.

CircleBee kids can name all parts of the external male system. They not only can name parts, but know how to construct them, and with the correct proportions.

They know their way around our local drugstore, know how to engage with staff, and how to ask questions critical to making the best purchases.

CircleBee students also can tell you exact measurements for certain, very long body parts. Ask a CircleBee what human body part is about 975 feet, and they'll not only be able to tell you, but they'll also be able to show you how far out into deep woods this is.

In addition to our cool studies, we also have eaten 7 different varieties of homemade soup, lots of cornbread and biscuits, and enjoyed ginger tea and chocolate birthday cake.

CircleBee kids get to come to WiseBodies twice this week, since tomorrow is our movie night. The kids thought about films that might meet the requirement of having at least one positive romantic scene. They came up with a list of 6 films. We watched trailers for each film, and voted on which one to watch.
Any guesses?

You can find us tomorrow evening, cozied up in the Pillow Room, popcorn and tea at hand, watching Pirates of the Carribean 3, with pauses for discussion about relational issues that arise. Parents will join us for the last hour of the film.

WiseBodies egged.

My beautiful home, home to my family and my unique and remarkable sexuality program, was egged last night.

My fear has turned to anger.

Our WiseBodies community is brave and bold, providing unique, life-affirming work that supports youth and families. We daily risk criticism, hatred - and apparently, eggs.

The programs that support human rights, Black Lives Matter, the right to whole sexuality education, the LGBTQ community, and feminism need communities that continue to stand up with us, that continue to be visible, verbal, and risk-taking. And that will vote!

I'm here, in the center of the Village of Chatham, where I'll remain, grateful for your continued support.

 

 

 

 

 

CircleBee takes off

CircleBee, WiseBodies new class for Middle School kids and their parents, has had two wonderful weeks.

Kids have arrived to gather in the kitchen, where they've finished preparing our soup, bread, and dessert. Having a full meal after school is new this year at WiseBodies; the change has been wholeheartedly received by families.

Last week the students painted beautiful new name plates to hang on our classroom walls.

We're focussing our 8-week study on the male reproductive/sexual system. The kids, parents, and I are increasing our comfort by playing games, having conversation, reading books, and asking questions on everything related to this topic. This week the students drew, in many different languages, a word specific to the male sexual system. Gorgeous work!

Kids are reporting that they feel very comfy and cozy. They've decided that, on a scale of 1 - 10, they feel about 11's worth of comfortable.
Families are reporting they want to be nowhere else on Tuesday afternoons - this includes the family that drives almost an hour to get here. There's absolutely nowhere else I'd like to be on Tuesday afternoons either.

We're off to a great start.

First KNOW Class!

We had a wonderful evening last night.

For those of you who weren't able to come last night, or who are anxious about walking in the door, I want you to know that this great big group of high school students is extraordinary, and will heartily welcome you.
We have two more weeks to settle into our final group, the group that will meet steadily through mid-June. If you're thinking of joining, this is the moment!
So you know, some KNOW students have worked with their coaches to allow for early release on Mondays, or with their bosses for permission to not work on Mondays...we can help you make these arrangements with your coaches/bosses.
And always, money is not a barrier to attending (Please see attached forms to look at payment options. All students/families are welcome, whether able to pay or not. No questions asked, no work exchange required...most families unable to pay work hard enough.).

The music of Alicia Keys came up last night. Some of us were familiar with her music, some of us were not.
To catch us all up (We'll also return to the word "douche"! In general, when we don't know something, we'll figure out ways
to learn it together.):

Here is Alicia Keys on walls, sexuality, love, justice, equality:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jv5_VtOPpxg

Here is Alicia Keys describing why she no longer wears make-up:
http://www.lennyletter.com/style/a410/alicia-keys-time-to-uncover/

Nice work, KNOW students!
I have a feeling we're going to create a remarkable year.

Join us for an Introductory Evening for CircleBee, our brand-new sexuality class for 6th/7th - 8th/9th graders and their families!

This September, WiseBodies offers CircleBee, a brand-new, whole-being sexuality class for families with children in the 6th/7th - 8th/9th grades.
In response to the motion toward a non-gender binary world, WiseBodies no longer hosts classes for "girls" and "boys", but rather classes for all.
To learn about, and register for CircleBee, a year-long class for families with children in the 6th/7th - 8th/9th grades, please join us for an Orientation evening on Tuesday, August 23rd, from 6:30 - 8:00pm, here at WiseBodies in Chatham.
We'll enjoy tea and desserts, learning about this year's curriculum, and exploring WiseBodies-style educational games. We'll all go home having learned something new!
CircleBee will meet Tuesday afternoons from 3:30 - 5:30 pm, beginning September 20th.
RSVP required! Please contact Isa at wisebodieshudson@gmail.com. We hope to see you here Tuesday, August 23rd, at 6:30pm!